Tucked away in the hills of Montecito is an amazingly serene retreat center. In 2006, the La Casa de Maria was voted Top U.S. Retreat by US News Weekly. Founded by the Immaculate Heart Community, the center still has ties to the Catholic Community but they welcome individuals and groups from all faiths.
Last month when my company held their annual retreat here, I was able to experience it first-hand. The land is surrounded by woodlands with a creek running through the grounds. Small houses are dispersed throughout the area far enough from each other to provide a sense of seclusion for those who stay there. I felt relaxed the instant I passed through the cobblestone gates.
Individuals, groups and conferences have been hosted at the La Casa de Maria to total 12,000 guests in the past year. However, you would never know it when you wander throughout the grounds; I couldn’t hear or see a single soul a minute after wandering away from the main building. The reason being that others are likely occupied with the many activities the center has to offer. From recreation such as swimming and tennis to more relaxing choices including meditation courses and yoga seminars, this sanctuary provides plenty of activities to relax your body and mind. In addition, they provide organic meals fresh from their own gardens. After spending a day at a work conference at the La Casa de Maria I was much more relaxed than had I lounged on the couch. I can’t imagine how I would have felt after a weekend of relaxation in one of their cozy little cottages. I highly recommend you try it.
Last Friday night, my boyfriend and I finally tried Arigato Sushi on State Street. After too many gasps of disbelief when we mentioned we had never been, we decided to cave and prepare for a hefty bill (or so we were told). Arigato definitely lived up to the hype and was actually much less expensive than we had expected.
The restaurant did not take reservations so we were a bit nervous at 7:00pm when we showed up to a full house. Luckily we got in right away at a cozy table right in the front. Our waitress was friendly, very attentive and the menu was huge. I don’t eat the actual fish at sushi places so I first noticed how vegetarian friendly their menu was. I then noticed all the crazy combinations they made with their rolls (including a Mexican inspired roll with jalapenos and habanero sauce). Prices range from $5 a roll to $14 (and a couple “at market” items).
I chose an amazing Magic Mushroom roll, a veggie roll and the Mediterraneaneo roll with artichokes, sun dried tomatoes and pesto sauce (definitely the highlight of my dinner). My boyfriend ordered the Dijon Ahi roll, the RockNRoll (their take on a rainbow roll) and the Manhattan roll – all of which he loved. Each roll came out on a different plate and arrangement so you knew they weren’t prepared too hastily. At first glance, we thought the rolls might be too small to fill us up. However, they were surprisingly generous and only seemed smaller because they use less rice filler and more good stuff inside. An hour later we were feeling full and healthy after spending less than $100 on a great dinner (drinks and appetizers included!).
Hot tip: There is apparently a “secret menu” with some pretty cool rolls. We heard about a “whatever” roll that is specially made by the sushi chefs on weekdays. Word on the street is that it’s loaded with the freshest ingredients and tastes amazing.
Sometimes dinner and movie just doesn’t cut it. If you’re dating an athlete or even someone who gets a little antsy sitting around at a coffee shop or movie, I have some great local places to get your move on. Luckily, Santa Barbara is a haven for fun outdoor activities. The obvious first choice is a hike and picnic. Grab a sandwich to go and check out some great hiking trails around the city. Chances are there is a trail within a mile from your house. Hiking is a great way to get to know someone with some quality one on one time.
We also have a TON of bike paths here in town. Rent a bike at the Pier and check out the town with a stroll along the water and around the downtown area. If you’re up for a climb, bike up the Mesa and through Hope Ranch for some awesome ocean views and beautiful homes. If you get tired climbing up those hills, just throw your bike on the bus and hop a ride back home.
For those of you that don’t want to venture too far, stop by the batting cages on lower Milpas Street. Right next door is Arturo’s Taqueria – I’ve heard it’s one of the best taco stands in town. Work up an appetite hitting some balls, grab some food and take a stroll a couple blocks down to the beach.
Wherever you choose to bring your partner, just remember that the endorphins you get from a great workout can only increase your chances of creating a perfect date.
Romance is an essential part of dating, and fortunately, it is also something that you can plan for. Taking the time out to plan a romantic date is important if you want to get to know each other more. Santa Barbara is a city brimming with romantic places to take your date, and depending on your preferences (and budget), you can choose among these romantic ideas.
At The Beach
A walk on the beach will surely create a romantic atmosphere. With the gentle waves lolling on your feet, sea gulls flying and walking hand in hand, this is probably the best romantic idea. You can even bring a blanket where you can sit down and watch the sunset. For a little more romance, bring a bottle of wine and some cheese for a picnic. You and your date will relax and feel comfortable with the wonderful sea air stimulating all your senses. Walking on the beach is great because you don't have to spend much, but you get to enjoy nature, which is priceless. Among the best beaches in Santa Barbara are Butterfly Beach, Leadbetter Beach and Arroyo Burro Beach.
Candlelit Dinners
If you prefer, you can take your date to a romantic candlelit dinner instead. The nice things about this romantic date idea include good food and great conversation. Nothing will distract you from focusing on getting to know each other. If you both enjoy seafood, then you two are in for a treat. Restaurants like Bay Cafe can offer you scrumptious seafood and breathtaking views of the waterfront. For a healthy meal, you and your date can go to Natural Cafe and feast on the freshest and most natural ingredients.
Resort and Spa
If money is no object, you and your partner can enjoy Santa Barbara's famous resorts and spas. Nothing is more romantic than a weekend together in places like Bacara Resort & Spa, Sea Spa, or Avia Spa - all located in Santa Barbara. These places provide a relaxing atmosphere where you and your date can spend some time together away from the demands of everyday life. You will certainly enjoy blissful massages, night swims, candlelit dinners and romantic walks. There is absolutely no way it can get more romantic than being secluded from the rest of the world.
All these romantic ideas in Santa Barbara are meant to provide you with great choices for your date.
Dating in Santa Barbara doesn't have to be stressful. This city provides many wonderful recreational sites where you can take your date and have a great time. Having fun is very important when you are dating; laughter also makes natural connections between two people. A relaxed atmosphere will also provide you the opportunity to open up and forget all nervousness typically felt during dates. Depending on your preferences, you can choose from many places and activities.
The weather is breezy and the day is perfect to take your date out for a day of fun. Fun date ideas are easy to come by in Santa Barbara, and the exciting urban activities blend well with the surrounding natural world.
Fun Activities
For a great time out on a date, you can look for a place to take your date based on you and your date's interests. In Santa Barbara, you can have fun ice skating, riding go karts, flying kites, horseback riding, painting, playing Frisbee or simply taking a drive along the city's scenic routes.
Museum
If you and your date share a common passion for history and arts, there are many museums you can go visit. The Santa Barbara Historical Museum features artifacts, textiles, furnishing and photographs, all displaying the city's cultural heritage. On the other hand, the Santa Barbara Museum of Art will delight you with collections of arts from the Asians, French and Americans. These are both great places to go, and have many sights you and your date can enjoy.
Performing Arts
Visit the UCSB Arts & Lectures where you can watch dancers, classical musicians, theater companies and performing artists. Other places like the Lobero Theatre and Center Stage Theater offer hours of entertainment as well.
Non-Traditional Fun
Santa Barbara offers tons of places where you experience unique and unforgettable fun. You can build sandcastles, taste exotic dishes and even have your fortunes read.
Tucked away in the hills of Montecito is an amazingly serene retreat center. In 2006, the La Casa de Maria was voted Top U.S. Retreat by US News Weekly. Founded by the Immaculate Heart Community, the center still has ties to the Catholic Community but they welcome individuals and groups from all faiths. 
Last Friday night, my boyfriend and I finally tried Arigato Sushi on State Street. After too many gasps of disbelief when we mentioned we had never been, we decided to cave and prepare for a hefty bill (or so we were told). Arigato definitely lived up to the hype and was actually much less expensive than we had expected.
Romance is an essential part of dating, and fortunately, it is also something that you can plan for. Taking the time out to plan a romantic date is important if you want to get to know each other more. Santa Barbara is a city brimming with romantic places to take your date, and depending on your preferences (and budget), you can choose among these romantic ideas.
Dating in Santa Barbara doesn't have to be stressful. This city provides many wonderful recreational sites where you can take your date and have a great time. Having fun is very important when you are dating; laughter also makes natural connections between two people. A relaxed atmosphere will also provide you the opportunity to open up and forget all nervousness typically felt during dates. Depending on your preferences, you can choose from many places and activities.